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remedy for child who whines and cannot solve problem
Hi,I wonder if there is a remedy for my 7 yr old who is not 'tough'?
He has low threshold for pain, whines and complains easily at the slightest setbacks. Can't problem solve on his own. Don't take responsibilty for his mistakes eg. 'it's the stupid nose that sneezes etc..', 'i don't like my stupid hands which are clumsy that played the wrong notes', such remarks are always coming from him and annoys us greatly.
He is also 'insensitive' to the needs of others or to situations..we think he is quite 'immature'.
Like I posted earlier, he is friendly, happy and chatty (talks about his own things most of the times). He enjoys outdoor sports like swimming, cycling, jogging.
any suggestion here? Can these be treated?
homeo12242 on 2009-09-21
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1. Describe your main suffering?
a) slow to learn from past mistakes. Forgetful.
b) low 'threshold' for 'perceived' pain.
c) tendency to blame others/things/body parts etc..for mistakes.
d) Not sensitive to needs of others or situations and act/speak appropriately.
d) a little self absorbed and immature.
e) likes to whine and complains when things are happening the ways he wants.
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
a) None. Perhaps occasional nasal congestion.
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
a) None
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
-- anger, frustration.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
-- can't connect
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
-- no specific timing. Whenever he gets disappointed.
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
--ameliorate : sympathy, understanding.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
**no
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
** don't know. But he likes cold whether.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
** mild, fun loving, excel on encouragement, agreeable, changeable, active, lots of energy, self motivated.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
**nothing special.
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
** yes. A kind word, a loving hug would do the job.
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
** doesn't like smelly things, smokes.
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
** no
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
** enjoys friends and family members.
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
** don't have.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
** loves french fries and chicken nugget, pasta.
** don't like some types of veggies, bitter tasting things.
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
** less to normal
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
** don't usually feel hungry. Take small meals and a very slow eater.
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
** no
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
** head
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
** BM regular (urge usually come during meal time). Stools are long and formed.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
** sleeps well. Like to hug pillow to sleep. sleep sideway.
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
** not applicable.
20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
** don't know. don't think so.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
** none.
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
** none. other than mother has high blood pressure.
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
** small, thin, agile. Loves to climb poles. Big ears, medium skin colour. Cute looking.
a) slow to learn from past mistakes. Forgetful.
b) low 'threshold' for 'perceived' pain.
c) tendency to blame others/things/body parts etc..for mistakes.
d) Not sensitive to needs of others or situations and act/speak appropriately.
d) a little self absorbed and immature.
e) likes to whine and complains when things are happening the ways he wants.
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
a) None. Perhaps occasional nasal congestion.
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
a) None
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
-- anger, frustration.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
-- can't connect
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
-- no specific timing. Whenever he gets disappointed.
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
--ameliorate : sympathy, understanding.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
**no
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
** don't know. But he likes cold whether.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
** mild, fun loving, excel on encouragement, agreeable, changeable, active, lots of energy, self motivated.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
**nothing special.
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
** yes. A kind word, a loving hug would do the job.
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
** doesn't like smelly things, smokes.
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
** no
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
** enjoys friends and family members.
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
** don't have.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
** loves french fries and chicken nugget, pasta.
** don't like some types of veggies, bitter tasting things.
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
** less to normal
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
** don't usually feel hungry. Take small meals and a very slow eater.
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
** no
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
** head
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
** BM regular (urge usually come during meal time). Stools are long and formed.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
** sleeps well. Like to hug pillow to sleep. sleep sideway.
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
** not applicable.
20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
** don't know. don't think so.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
** none.
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
** none. other than mother has high blood pressure.
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
** small, thin, agile. Loves to climb poles. Big ears, medium skin colour. Cute looking.
homeo12242 last decade
Oh, I also wish to add that he is doing well academically esp. in Maths and music.
He is competitive and doesn't take losing very well.
Adults would give comment like 'clever, knowledgeable, talks well etc' as their comment of him.
But I think the 'quality' of his conversation is not quite there.
He is competitive and doesn't take losing very well.
Adults would give comment like 'clever, knowledgeable, talks well etc' as their comment of him.
But I think the 'quality' of his conversation is not quite there.
homeo12242 last decade
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