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vitamin.X on 2011-10-17
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♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
If you had your simillimum, you would not be looking at your nose, and you would not be trying to convince the rest of the world that your nose is growing and shrinking and changing shape.
This is what I mean about you being unable to prescribe for yourself. You are trapped inside your own dream world, your own delusion, and cannot see anything outside of it.
This is what I mean about you being unable to prescribe for yourself. You are trapped inside your own dream world, your own delusion, and cannot see anything outside of it.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
I am not buying into your mental illness.
Symptoms of BDD:
Being occupied with minor or imaginary physical flaws.
Having a lot of anxiety and stress about the perceived flaw and spending a lot of time focussing on it...excessively checking appearance in the mirror...comparing the appearance with others, seeking reassurance from others about how they look...
Strong belief that you have an abnormality or defect in your appearance that makes you ugly
Belief that others take a special notice of your appearance in a negative way
They are often so convinced about their perceived flaws that you become delusional, imagining something on their body that is not true, no matter how much someone tries to convince them otherwise.
Your BDD is clearly getting worse. I warned you this would happen as you experimented with the remedies. If you continue this way, your own safety is at risk. If you are not careful, as you continue to make yourself worse, you risk your family intervening and hospitalizing you. BDD is known to get worse when there is no help sought, and can lead to dangerous behaviour.
You NEED to get help from someone else AND you must stop this self-prescribing. Get help from someone before it is too late.
Symptoms of BDD:
Being occupied with minor or imaginary physical flaws.
Having a lot of anxiety and stress about the perceived flaw and spending a lot of time focussing on it...excessively checking appearance in the mirror...comparing the appearance with others, seeking reassurance from others about how they look...
Strong belief that you have an abnormality or defect in your appearance that makes you ugly
Belief that others take a special notice of your appearance in a negative way
They are often so convinced about their perceived flaws that you become delusional, imagining something on their body that is not true, no matter how much someone tries to convince them otherwise.
Your BDD is clearly getting worse. I warned you this would happen as you experimented with the remedies. If you continue this way, your own safety is at risk. If you are not careful, as you continue to make yourself worse, you risk your family intervening and hospitalizing you. BDD is known to get worse when there is no help sought, and can lead to dangerous behaviour.
You NEED to get help from someone else AND you must stop this self-prescribing. Get help from someone before it is too late.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Another symptom of BDD:
'Getting cosmetic surgery can make BDD worse. They are often not happy with the outcome of the surgery. If they are, they may start to focus attention on another body area and become preoccupied trying to fix the new 'defect.' In this case, some patients with BDD become angry at the surgeon for making their appearance worse and may even become violent towards the surgeon.'
The more this goes on, the more likely you are going to end up in an institution or harming yourself if not others. Assuming NZ is like many other countries, you won't have a choice because your family can make that decision.
Every remedy you take is a step closer to a disaster. I assume that now you are arrogantly just trying to prove me wrong.
This is a train wreck about to happen. I really am bowing out now. I stayed in the vain hope there was some rational part of you that would listen to reason. I realise now that you have incorporated me into your delusional state. It appears that not being your prescriber is not enough, I need to withdraw from any interaction with you at all.
I know you will not listen to me. Perhaps when you get tired of talking to yourself, you may finally be driven to seek real help. Either that or you will be forced into mental care whether you like it or not.
I am sorry in way, that I was so incapable of handling you. However, I don't believe anyone with your severity of mental illness should be seeking help on a forum like this, and it is probably no surprise that this has been not only useless, but has actually been detrimental to your health.
Good bye.
[message edited by brisbanehomoeopath on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 21:55:35 BST]
'Getting cosmetic surgery can make BDD worse. They are often not happy with the outcome of the surgery. If they are, they may start to focus attention on another body area and become preoccupied trying to fix the new 'defect.' In this case, some patients with BDD become angry at the surgeon for making their appearance worse and may even become violent towards the surgeon.'
The more this goes on, the more likely you are going to end up in an institution or harming yourself if not others. Assuming NZ is like many other countries, you won't have a choice because your family can make that decision.
Every remedy you take is a step closer to a disaster. I assume that now you are arrogantly just trying to prove me wrong.
This is a train wreck about to happen. I really am bowing out now. I stayed in the vain hope there was some rational part of you that would listen to reason. I realise now that you have incorporated me into your delusional state. It appears that not being your prescriber is not enough, I need to withdraw from any interaction with you at all.
I know you will not listen to me. Perhaps when you get tired of talking to yourself, you may finally be driven to seek real help. Either that or you will be forced into mental care whether you like it or not.
I am sorry in way, that I was so incapable of handling you. However, I don't believe anyone with your severity of mental illness should be seeking help on a forum like this, and it is probably no surprise that this has been not only useless, but has actually been detrimental to your health.
Good bye.
[message edited by brisbanehomoeopath on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 21:55:35 BST]
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
I am not going to talk any longer. I dont know what it is that makes me instead of getting closer rather further apart from you. Please delete my name and reference to country. Thanks
[message edited by vitamin.X on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 07:42:07 BST]
[message edited by vitamin.X on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 07:42:07 BST]
vitamin.X last decade
I am a suggestible person and this caused me just more anxiety.
I dont know what you are talking about, really.
What is it that I dont listen to or do not get?
I dont like what you are doing to me. You are confusing me, rejecting me or leaving me which makes me feel that there is something wrong with me again, and talking about institutionalizing me.
Really not good.
All this just because I mentioned my nose changed, which is true by the way but whatever. It isnt even important because it is a small change. And I am not even stressing about it. I think you are a bit overreacting David.
I mentioned in another thread that I am aware that people with BDD are never happy with the outcome of surgery, And continue having surgery after surgery.
Why the institutionalizing talk and of a disaster happening. I really dont like it and making me look more ill than I am. Why? Can I get an explanation at least
[message edited by vitamin.X on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 07:59:55 BST]
I dont know what you are talking about, really.
What is it that I dont listen to or do not get?
I dont like what you are doing to me. You are confusing me, rejecting me or leaving me which makes me feel that there is something wrong with me again, and talking about institutionalizing me.
Really not good.
All this just because I mentioned my nose changed, which is true by the way but whatever. It isnt even important because it is a small change. And I am not even stressing about it. I think you are a bit overreacting David.
I mentioned in another thread that I am aware that people with BDD are never happy with the outcome of surgery, And continue having surgery after surgery.
Why the institutionalizing talk and of a disaster happening. I really dont like it and making me look more ill than I am. Why? Can I get an explanation at least
[message edited by vitamin.X on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 07:59:55 BST]
vitamin.X last decade
You cannot leave me. This is the worst someone can do to me. I told you this before. Unacceptable Such anger.
But you sort of broke me/destroyed me now with those mentally ill, institutionalizing comments and made me just more afraid about what to say and not to say out of fear I might get left by people. On one hand I feel deeply hurt by all this and want to hold a grudge, never forgive. But I dont feel it deep and can forgive quick.
My view on all this is that I leaned on someone for help, contact, opened up but in the end as always got screwed over and ice cold rejected. I am anxious from the uncertainty this caused as I dont understand from where you get those ideas from and on the other hand great anger. You cannot leave me. Last time you did this to me I got angry and was all over the forum posting. I can turn ice cold too if someone I depend on leaves me. But I dont want to do it as it makes me look really bad in front of other people.
You will never get rid of me unless you give me another person who wants to help me or cure me.
I am hurt by what you did.
Disclaimer: This is just my view which I know is not reality so please dont tell me, or reject me again. Criticism, or anything negative etc makes me feel more apart, distanced, the connection braking. So no need to make me feel worse.
But you sort of broke me/destroyed me now with those mentally ill, institutionalizing comments and made me just more afraid about what to say and not to say out of fear I might get left by people. On one hand I feel deeply hurt by all this and want to hold a grudge, never forgive. But I dont feel it deep and can forgive quick.
My view on all this is that I leaned on someone for help, contact, opened up but in the end as always got screwed over and ice cold rejected. I am anxious from the uncertainty this caused as I dont understand from where you get those ideas from and on the other hand great anger. You cannot leave me. Last time you did this to me I got angry and was all over the forum posting. I can turn ice cold too if someone I depend on leaves me. But I dont want to do it as it makes me look really bad in front of other people.
You will never get rid of me unless you give me another person who wants to help me or cure me.
I am hurt by what you did.
Disclaimer: This is just my view which I know is not reality so please dont tell me, or reject me again. Criticism, or anything negative etc makes me feel more apart, distanced, the connection braking. So no need to make me feel worse.
vitamin.X last decade
I am sorry for whatever I said or did. I hope I didnt hurt you.
I feel anxious about your possible response
Right now I do not wish to get any response to not feel anxious and fear having to read something bad again. Just my name deleted please
[message edited by vitamin.X on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 10:38:51 BST]
I feel anxious about your possible response
Right now I do not wish to get any response to not feel anxious and fear having to read something bad again. Just my name deleted please
[message edited by vitamin.X on Tue, 18 Oct 2011 10:38:51 BST]
vitamin.X last decade
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