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Inverted Psoriasis
I am a 43 year old female with inverted psoriasis under both breasts. I have psoriasis on my elbows and the very back of my neck is red but no dryness. I also noticed that the right side is more affected than the left and and I even my right big toenail is dry with psoriasis. I would like to fill in a full diagnosis if anyone would be willing it would be most appreciated. Also, the place where I grew up had a high sulfur content in the water - the water even smells like sulfur. I don't drink it now but am wondering if that is why I had psoriasis? Also, I tried taking the 30 C of Sulfur for a month and nothing happened...in gratitude[message edited by blueskywoman on Sun, 13 Oct 2013 00:55:52 BST]
blueskywoman on 2013-10-13
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Homeopathy Questionnaire
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Patients can use this questionnaire for submitting their cases. The effectiveness of remedy selection is directly proportional to the details provided by the patient while replying these questions.
Patient ID: Sex: Age:
Female 43 years old
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
Psoriasis on elbows (white) worse on the right side as well as psoriasis on the right big toe. Dry scalp, redness at back of neck but no white patches.
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Pre-diabetic, rosacea?
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
At times I realize I am trying to fix everyone elses problems, chaos instead of my own.
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
Hopeless and sad.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
The first time I had psoriasis was about age 11. Had it for about a year then it went away. My sister also has it.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
I dunno
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
Sweating
Salt water (ocean) tends to heal it.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)? I moved from the coast to Toronto. I do have problems with menstrual cycle. I am on my period now, but last period was in June.
I noticed the last time I was home (family home) the water smelled like sulfur in the well, I am wondering if maybe I had an overdose of it as a child?
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Cold weather I think.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am very withdrawn right now as I have lost my job.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
EXcited sometimes I have premonitions of them before they come.
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Yes.
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
Yes at times, last week I had to wear sunglasses and everything bothered me like a migraine with nausea. I took pulsatilla which seemed to help it.
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
None
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
fine
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
I've been dreaming of recurring dreams from my childhood lately.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Chips.
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
This week - Excessive.
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
I dunno
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
Sweats more. back and under breasts.
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
Runny to normal.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
maybe 6 hours. On my right.
20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
I am very intuitive.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
Sulfur - nothing seemed to change.
Pulsatilla
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
Heart disease Paternal grandfathers
Blood pressure Paternal grandfather
Joints/knee issue Maternal/Paternal grandmother
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
Brown curly hair, overweight, hazel eyes.
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Patients can use this questionnaire for submitting their cases. The effectiveness of remedy selection is directly proportional to the details provided by the patient while replying these questions.
Patient ID: Sex: Age:
Female 43 years old
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
Psoriasis on elbows (white) worse on the right side as well as psoriasis on the right big toe. Dry scalp, redness at back of neck but no white patches.
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Pre-diabetic, rosacea?
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
At times I realize I am trying to fix everyone elses problems, chaos instead of my own.
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
Hopeless and sad.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
The first time I had psoriasis was about age 11. Had it for about a year then it went away. My sister also has it.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
I dunno
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
Sweating
Salt water (ocean) tends to heal it.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)? I moved from the coast to Toronto. I do have problems with menstrual cycle. I am on my period now, but last period was in June.
I noticed the last time I was home (family home) the water smelled like sulfur in the well, I am wondering if maybe I had an overdose of it as a child?
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Cold weather I think.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am very withdrawn right now as I have lost my job.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
EXcited sometimes I have premonitions of them before they come.
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Yes.
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
Yes at times, last week I had to wear sunglasses and everything bothered me like a migraine with nausea. I took pulsatilla which seemed to help it.
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
None
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
fine
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
I've been dreaming of recurring dreams from my childhood lately.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Chips.
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
This week - Excessive.
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
I dunno
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
Sweats more. back and under breasts.
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
Runny to normal.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
maybe 6 hours. On my right.
20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
I am very intuitive.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
Sulfur - nothing seemed to change.
Pulsatilla
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
Heart disease Paternal grandfathers
Blood pressure Paternal grandfather
Joints/knee issue Maternal/Paternal grandmother
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
Brown curly hair, overweight, hazel eyes.
blueskywoman last decade
I can prescribe if you kindly fill in the below questionnaire that I am used to. It saves me time. Thanks. Otherwise I am sure someone else can prescribe based on your already posted answers.
To select a homeopathic remedy for any health problem, the patient has to be like an open book. As if talking to oneself and alone. Explain with detail what your problems are. Example answers are given in front of the questions. Please take guidance from these examples and reply in detail accordingly.
Remember, we dont know and will never know your identity so be fully truthful when answering these question so that we can help you towards regaining full health.
1. Describe your appearance & age (example answer: I am a 30 yr old male, stick thin or I am big for my size and overweight I have not always been like this I grew fat after )
2. What are the symptoms of your health problem (Constipation, Swollen & painful joints of elbow, knees and wrists )
3. How & when did this problem begin (it began 3 years back when I was very tense due to a divorce .)
4. What makes the problem better or worse (Constipation gets worse when I eat rice, it gets better when I sleep a lot . the swelling gets less when I sleep or eat meat, it gets more when I walk.)
5. How do you feel emotionally (I feel sad & depressed, thinking about suicide. Think about all bad things happened in the past. I like to be alone all the time. I hate being with people ..)
6. Describe your personality (I am a headstrong person, very suspicious of others, very strict about discipline . OR I am a messy person, not interested in cleaning. Dont bathe for many days ..)
7. What occupies your mind mostly (I do a lot of daydreaming, I think about romantic getaways all the time, I keep making plans for things and never do them .)
8. How do you respond to consolation (I hate consolation )
9. Do you want to stay alone or in company (I love company of people and never want to be alone .)
10. How is your sleep (I have great sleep, always wake up fresh ..)
11. Do you have any recurring dreams (I always dreams of big black snakes very regularly .)
12. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints (I like dry & warm weather and hate winter. My complaints are better in damp weather ..)
13. Do you fight or flight (I never pick any fights, rather I stay silent and then think over it and get angry ..)
14. What are your fears (I am terrified of spiders, dogs, cats, closed spaces, heights )
15. Do you normally feel hot or cold (I am usually hot and like winter more. I keep wearing light clothes in winter even ..)
16. What foods you love & hate (I like fried foods and hate slimy foods. I like sweets more than anything else. I hate meat, love chicken. I like to eat chalk .)
17. How is your thirst (I am thirsty all the time and even after drinking ice cold water remain thirsty )
18. Any coating on tongue (some white coating on edges only )
19. Any skin problems (not now but all my life I had eczema on my arms for which I used allopathic creams .)
20. Any problems with respiration (nose, chest, throat) ( I snore a lot when sleeping and sleep with open mouth .)
21. Any problems with stool/urine (I have severe constipation and the stool is always like balls )
22. Any sexual problems (I have no interest in it. I have pain in testicles. I have late periods always and are painful, a lot of clotting, with a lot of backache .)
To select a homeopathic remedy for any health problem, the patient has to be like an open book. As if talking to oneself and alone. Explain with detail what your problems are. Example answers are given in front of the questions. Please take guidance from these examples and reply in detail accordingly.
Remember, we dont know and will never know your identity so be fully truthful when answering these question so that we can help you towards regaining full health.
1. Describe your appearance & age (example answer: I am a 30 yr old male, stick thin or I am big for my size and overweight I have not always been like this I grew fat after )
2. What are the symptoms of your health problem (Constipation, Swollen & painful joints of elbow, knees and wrists )
3. How & when did this problem begin (it began 3 years back when I was very tense due to a divorce .)
4. What makes the problem better or worse (Constipation gets worse when I eat rice, it gets better when I sleep a lot . the swelling gets less when I sleep or eat meat, it gets more when I walk.)
5. How do you feel emotionally (I feel sad & depressed, thinking about suicide. Think about all bad things happened in the past. I like to be alone all the time. I hate being with people ..)
6. Describe your personality (I am a headstrong person, very suspicious of others, very strict about discipline . OR I am a messy person, not interested in cleaning. Dont bathe for many days ..)
7. What occupies your mind mostly (I do a lot of daydreaming, I think about romantic getaways all the time, I keep making plans for things and never do them .)
8. How do you respond to consolation (I hate consolation )
9. Do you want to stay alone or in company (I love company of people and never want to be alone .)
10. How is your sleep (I have great sleep, always wake up fresh ..)
11. Do you have any recurring dreams (I always dreams of big black snakes very regularly .)
12. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints (I like dry & warm weather and hate winter. My complaints are better in damp weather ..)
13. Do you fight or flight (I never pick any fights, rather I stay silent and then think over it and get angry ..)
14. What are your fears (I am terrified of spiders, dogs, cats, closed spaces, heights )
15. Do you normally feel hot or cold (I am usually hot and like winter more. I keep wearing light clothes in winter even ..)
16. What foods you love & hate (I like fried foods and hate slimy foods. I like sweets more than anything else. I hate meat, love chicken. I like to eat chalk .)
17. How is your thirst (I am thirsty all the time and even after drinking ice cold water remain thirsty )
18. Any coating on tongue (some white coating on edges only )
19. Any skin problems (not now but all my life I had eczema on my arms for which I used allopathic creams .)
20. Any problems with respiration (nose, chest, throat) ( I snore a lot when sleeping and sleep with open mouth .)
21. Any problems with stool/urine (I have severe constipation and the stool is always like balls )
22. Any sexual problems (I have no interest in it. I have pain in testicles. I have late periods always and are painful, a lot of clotting, with a lot of backache .)
fitness last decade
Thank you for taking the time. I deeply appreciate this. i hope I have answered everything you need. If I can think of anything else, I will let you know.
Remember, we dont know and will never know your identity so be fully truthful when answering these question so that we can help you towards regaining full health.
1. Describe your appearance & age I am a 43 year old female. I was always about ten lbs overweight until my first child at age 21. I was in an abusive relationship and gained a lot of weight during pregnancy. Then at age 27, I moved across the country and I took Depo-Provera (one shot) and gained 60 lbs in a few months. I was in the wrong relationship but stayed in it for 13 years. I immediately lost 30lbs after leaving it.
2. What are the symptoms of your health problem: Psoriasis on my elbows. The right elbow is worse than the left. My big toe on the right foot is also infected with psoriasis. The back of my neck also has redness. It is also worse on the right side. I have inverted psoriasis I think it is under both breasts. It began on the right side.
3. How & when did this problem begin I see where this is going...it got worse when I decided to end my 13 year dead end relationship back in 2010.
4. What makes the problem better or worse Sweating makes it worse. Salt water - ocean or pool actually makes it better and starts healing it but I am miles from the ocean now. :-(
5. How do you feel emotionally. Since losing my job, I feel like I just want to be alone, away from others.
I am not coping well financially.
6. Describe your personality I am in the midst of cleaning things no one wants to clean, I've been taking apart the vaccum cleaner, the stove, doing the tough jobs..
7. What occupies your mind mostly The stress of not working...how to cope.
8. How do you respond to consolation Right now I am frustrated by it.
9. Do you want to stay alone or in company I normally want company but since losing my job i want to be alone
10. How is your sleep I wake up every night at 4am to go to the washroom.
11. Do you have any recurring dreams I dream of recurring dreams from my childhood.
12. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints I love thunderstorms but sometimes I get migraines. I don't like muggy weather. I prefer the cold.
13. Do you fight or flight I am probably passive agressive. It takes a lot to make me angry but when I do, look out.
14. What are your fears Heights.
15. Do you normally feel hot or cold (I am usually hot and like winter more. I keep wearing light clothes in winter even ..)
16. What foods you love & hate I like chips and I hate okra specifically.
17. How is your thirst. This week I have been thirsty.
18. Any coating on tongue (some white coating on edges only )
19. Any skin problems At age 11 I developed psoriasis on my elbows. It went away a year or two later. I think I have rosacea on my face, I blush deep red when I meet people I haven't seen in a long time, then they say why are you blushing?
Also, the place where I grew up had a high sulfur content in the water - the water even smells like sulfur. I don't drink it now but am wondering if that is why I had psoriasis? Also, I tried taking the 30 C of Sulfur for a month and nothing happened.
Psoriasis on both elbows worse on right. Dry scalp. Redness on back of head and neck, worse on right. Big toe infected with psoriasis - on right foot.
20. Any problems with respiration (nose, chest, throat) ( I snore a lot when sleeping.
21. Any problems with stool/urine Varies from runny to normal. I do better when I eat wheat free. I have two sisters with celiac.
22. Any sexual problems I sometimes have a lot of clots during my period. Last period I had was July then I had my period Oct 7 and passed a big white clot I think - actually thought I was pregnant but the results came back negative but deep down inside a part of me wanted to be pregnant.
I also had 3 deaths in our family this year (uncles) all within a month and I would dream of their deaths the night before it happened. I felt very needy in my relationship after that because I wanted that person to know that I loved them deeply but I was like a cling on at the time. Also, I've spent the last 4 years deeply involved in everyone else chaos - like I am on some mission to give away my money to others as I do without. I've finally taken a step back and it is hard but I no longer feel the urge to rescue.
Remember, we dont know and will never know your identity so be fully truthful when answering these question so that we can help you towards regaining full health.
1. Describe your appearance & age I am a 43 year old female. I was always about ten lbs overweight until my first child at age 21. I was in an abusive relationship and gained a lot of weight during pregnancy. Then at age 27, I moved across the country and I took Depo-Provera (one shot) and gained 60 lbs in a few months. I was in the wrong relationship but stayed in it for 13 years. I immediately lost 30lbs after leaving it.
2. What are the symptoms of your health problem: Psoriasis on my elbows. The right elbow is worse than the left. My big toe on the right foot is also infected with psoriasis. The back of my neck also has redness. It is also worse on the right side. I have inverted psoriasis I think it is under both breasts. It began on the right side.
3. How & when did this problem begin I see where this is going...it got worse when I decided to end my 13 year dead end relationship back in 2010.
4. What makes the problem better or worse Sweating makes it worse. Salt water - ocean or pool actually makes it better and starts healing it but I am miles from the ocean now. :-(
5. How do you feel emotionally. Since losing my job, I feel like I just want to be alone, away from others.
I am not coping well financially.
6. Describe your personality I am in the midst of cleaning things no one wants to clean, I've been taking apart the vaccum cleaner, the stove, doing the tough jobs..
7. What occupies your mind mostly The stress of not working...how to cope.
8. How do you respond to consolation Right now I am frustrated by it.
9. Do you want to stay alone or in company I normally want company but since losing my job i want to be alone
10. How is your sleep I wake up every night at 4am to go to the washroom.
11. Do you have any recurring dreams I dream of recurring dreams from my childhood.
12. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints I love thunderstorms but sometimes I get migraines. I don't like muggy weather. I prefer the cold.
13. Do you fight or flight I am probably passive agressive. It takes a lot to make me angry but when I do, look out.
14. What are your fears Heights.
15. Do you normally feel hot or cold (I am usually hot and like winter more. I keep wearing light clothes in winter even ..)
16. What foods you love & hate I like chips and I hate okra specifically.
17. How is your thirst. This week I have been thirsty.
18. Any coating on tongue (some white coating on edges only )
19. Any skin problems At age 11 I developed psoriasis on my elbows. It went away a year or two later. I think I have rosacea on my face, I blush deep red when I meet people I haven't seen in a long time, then they say why are you blushing?
Also, the place where I grew up had a high sulfur content in the water - the water even smells like sulfur. I don't drink it now but am wondering if that is why I had psoriasis? Also, I tried taking the 30 C of Sulfur for a month and nothing happened.
Psoriasis on both elbows worse on right. Dry scalp. Redness on back of head and neck, worse on right. Big toe infected with psoriasis - on right foot.
20. Any problems with respiration (nose, chest, throat) ( I snore a lot when sleeping.
21. Any problems with stool/urine Varies from runny to normal. I do better when I eat wheat free. I have two sisters with celiac.
22. Any sexual problems I sometimes have a lot of clots during my period. Last period I had was July then I had my period Oct 7 and passed a big white clot I think - actually thought I was pregnant but the results came back negative but deep down inside a part of me wanted to be pregnant.
I also had 3 deaths in our family this year (uncles) all within a month and I would dream of their deaths the night before it happened. I felt very needy in my relationship after that because I wanted that person to know that I loved them deeply but I was like a cling on at the time. Also, I've spent the last 4 years deeply involved in everyone else chaos - like I am on some mission to give away my money to others as I do without. I've finally taken a step back and it is hard but I no longer feel the urge to rescue.
blueskywoman last decade
I need much more details on below questions:
What was happening in your life at around 11 yrs of age when you got the psoriasis for the first time
When did your periods start
Are your periods regular
Explain abusive relationship
Give details about you as a person
What occupies your mind mostly (not just this week) but in general
How do you feel about tight clothes especially around neck
What tastes you like/hate (sweet, salt....)
How has your thirst always been
What happens when you eat wheat
What was happening in your life at around 11 yrs of age when you got the psoriasis for the first time
When did your periods start
Are your periods regular
Explain abusive relationship
Give details about you as a person
What occupies your mind mostly (not just this week) but in general
How do you feel about tight clothes especially around neck
What tastes you like/hate (sweet, salt....)
How has your thirst always been
What happens when you eat wheat
fitness last decade
Hi, I think the psoriasis may have been actually at age 14 when my grandfather passed away.
My periods started August 1983 when I was 13. They were regular until age 27 when I took Depo provera one time for birth control, then I had abnormal periods - no periods for 3 months then a period for 2 months straight.
I have to rewind back to age 19:
At age 19 I moved from the country to the city and went from drinking well water to chlorine water. There is also an oil refinery in that city so bad air.
I was raped and for 9 months straight after that I had my period and strep throat/tonsillitis. I found out later that I had mono. i also had blood poisoning twice in that time in my legs because of cut toenail. Note. My dad at age 19 also had blood poisoning and almost died. I feel it is connected to the rape. My skin was perfect until then. Then I started to have breakouts and rashes on my face. I never told anyone about it until probably age 27. I'll elaborate more in a sec. I was afraid of him because he was a maintenance man in my building so you see he had access to my apartment...
When I moved away at age 27, I had a massage which unlocked the memory of that rape which I had kept hidden...I started bleeding profusely that night constantly for probably a month.
My first abusive relationship was also at age 19 when I met my daughter's father - he was a Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde personality and I was actually afraid when I met him. When he proposed after 2 months, I literally went to the washroom and threw up. Talk about not listening to your gut...
I stayed in that relationship for 3 years and left when I saw that he was about to hit my daughter too. I had left a good paying job and started over and went back to school.
I lost most of the weight - like 50lbs after leaving him.
A few years later I moved away with my daughter to start a new start and work. i met someone who could not decide if he wanted to be in a relationship. He had problems with intimacy and experienced pain during sex due to foreskin problems. I bled every time we had sex and found out later that he had been abused as a child and he still does not remember. and I was bleeding because I was told by a healer I was processing his stuff. I know I am going deeply here but I must to truly get to the root and heal this. So he was abusive in the sense that he was angry and yelled all the time. When I would go to bed, he would stay up. When he would go to bed i would stay up. We were complete opposites. If I said black he said white. It was deeply annoying and we were in constant struggle. He wouldn't let me drive his car. He was very controlling but never hit me...I would have to ask him to have sex and why would I even want to bother to have sex if he was going to be complaining that it hurt. I couldn't do it.
I actually tried for 13 years to end the relationship.
Me as a person - I tend to go overboard and help everyone but myself. I seem to have a passive aggressive personality but I am working on that to be assertive but I do struggle to tell someone if something bothers me that they do.
What occupies my mind is love and how am I going to get another job? I started seeing someone who has been my best friend for ten years. He said he just wanted to be friends with benefits and I fell deeply in love with him. Now I've taken a step back and things have changed.
I cannot stand tight clothes - I cannot where turtlenecks I feel like I am being choked and have to take it off.
I like sweet and salty. I can't think of anything i hate accept okra and lima beans
Thirst is normal.
When I eat wheat my face breaks out in a rash. I get bloated and ummmm my psoriasis gets worse...lavender oil seems to help my psoriasis on my elbows but not heal completely.
[message edited by blueskywoman on Sun, 13 Oct 2013 18:23:42 BST]
[message edited by blueskywoman on Sun, 13 Oct 2013 19:26:42 BST]
My periods started August 1983 when I was 13. They were regular until age 27 when I took Depo provera one time for birth control, then I had abnormal periods - no periods for 3 months then a period for 2 months straight.
I have to rewind back to age 19:
At age 19 I moved from the country to the city and went from drinking well water to chlorine water. There is also an oil refinery in that city so bad air.
I was raped and for 9 months straight after that I had my period and strep throat/tonsillitis. I found out later that I had mono. i also had blood poisoning twice in that time in my legs because of cut toenail. Note. My dad at age 19 also had blood poisoning and almost died. I feel it is connected to the rape. My skin was perfect until then. Then I started to have breakouts and rashes on my face. I never told anyone about it until probably age 27. I'll elaborate more in a sec. I was afraid of him because he was a maintenance man in my building so you see he had access to my apartment...
When I moved away at age 27, I had a massage which unlocked the memory of that rape which I had kept hidden...I started bleeding profusely that night constantly for probably a month.
My first abusive relationship was also at age 19 when I met my daughter's father - he was a Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde personality and I was actually afraid when I met him. When he proposed after 2 months, I literally went to the washroom and threw up. Talk about not listening to your gut...
I stayed in that relationship for 3 years and left when I saw that he was about to hit my daughter too. I had left a good paying job and started over and went back to school.
I lost most of the weight - like 50lbs after leaving him.
A few years later I moved away with my daughter to start a new start and work. i met someone who could not decide if he wanted to be in a relationship. He had problems with intimacy and experienced pain during sex due to foreskin problems. I bled every time we had sex and found out later that he had been abused as a child and he still does not remember. and I was bleeding because I was told by a healer I was processing his stuff. I know I am going deeply here but I must to truly get to the root and heal this. So he was abusive in the sense that he was angry and yelled all the time. When I would go to bed, he would stay up. When he would go to bed i would stay up. We were complete opposites. If I said black he said white. It was deeply annoying and we were in constant struggle. He wouldn't let me drive his car. He was very controlling but never hit me...I would have to ask him to have sex and why would I even want to bother to have sex if he was going to be complaining that it hurt. I couldn't do it.
I actually tried for 13 years to end the relationship.
Me as a person - I tend to go overboard and help everyone but myself. I seem to have a passive aggressive personality but I am working on that to be assertive but I do struggle to tell someone if something bothers me that they do.
What occupies my mind is love and how am I going to get another job? I started seeing someone who has been my best friend for ten years. He said he just wanted to be friends with benefits and I fell deeply in love with him. Now I've taken a step back and things have changed.
I cannot stand tight clothes - I cannot where turtlenecks I feel like I am being choked and have to take it off.
I like sweet and salty. I can't think of anything i hate accept okra and lima beans
Thirst is normal.
When I eat wheat my face breaks out in a rash. I get bloated and ummmm my psoriasis gets worse...lavender oil seems to help my psoriasis on my elbows but not heal completely.
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blueskywoman last decade
I am sorry some of the questions are awkward.
Please let me know how were you emotionally affected by the rape
Now that you think about past incidences, what do you feel
How are your periods now
What do you mean that love occupies your mind
Did your psoriasis worsen significantly at any point in time, if yes, what was going on in your life at that time
[message edited by fitness on Mon, 14 Oct 2013 00:24:24 BST]
Please let me know how were you emotionally affected by the rape
Now that you think about past incidences, what do you feel
How are your periods now
What do you mean that love occupies your mind
Did your psoriasis worsen significantly at any point in time, if yes, what was going on in your life at that time
[message edited by fitness on Mon, 14 Oct 2013 00:24:24 BST]
fitness last decade
I forgot to mention this important thing that happened at age 19. When I had the mono, the doctor gave me a sulfa drug and I broke out from head to toe - my dad also had a bad reaction to that. Every part of my body was on fire and itching.
Please let me know how were you emotionally affected by the rape.
At 19, I shut the memory down. At 27, I finally went for councilling. Finally forgave and let go.
Now that you think about past incidences, what do you feel. I am ok now.
How are your periods now
Every few months.
What do you mean that love occupies your mind. I wanted to be pregnant again. But now is not the time. I want to be consoled.
FYI, I took Pulsatilla this week and it has helped the emotions..
Please let me know how were you emotionally affected by the rape.
At 19, I shut the memory down. At 27, I finally went for councilling. Finally forgave and let go.
Now that you think about past incidences, what do you feel. I am ok now.
How are your periods now
Every few months.
What do you mean that love occupies your mind. I wanted to be pregnant again. But now is not the time. I want to be consoled.
FYI, I took Pulsatilla this week and it has helped the emotions..
blueskywoman last decade
Please stop all homeopathic remedies that you are taking.
Wait for a week.
Then take a dose of Ignatia Amara 200c. Just one dose. Not daily.
Report back with any changes observed.
Wait for a week.
Then take a dose of Ignatia Amara 200c. Just one dose. Not daily.
Report back with any changes observed.
fitness last decade
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