discharge before sex

This problem is related with PE. during inercourse I come toooo early. If I start with fast pace then I simply come in 2/3 seconds. but if i controle the pace of the strokes, then I can make it longer up to 15/18 minutes. but for that, I have to
stop many times to control the ejaculation and I must
keep my pace tooo slow. This simply NOT satisfied me.
I consulted with some people regarding this, some
told me if i give some gape then I can last longer but
after her period days, it becomes a gape of 7/8 days
but after that I ejaculate more early then before
becuase I become "FULL".
and during intercourse, i feel more sex than enjoyment.
often i don't get full eriction. one problem is that im remain concious all the time, people are looking me, how i am looking, what other think about me, like that.
i did a lot of mastrubation and even now when i do mastrubate, i ejaculate before getting the full eriction.


Now my age is about 34, as I remember while I see the X movie, by simply touching my private part, I jaculates. and it was happening sicne the my early age.

another problem is that after urination, when i come out from the tiolet, by moving my things a some particular direction, few drops of urine come out ALWAYS. and i feel this problem since the age of 16/17