Dr Kadwa - Old problem of Premature ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction

Dr Kadwa,

I am 42 years have problem of Premature ejaculation and Erectile dysfunction since many years now. I was married 13 years ago and this problem was present even before my marriage. Due to this
I am not having satisfying sex life with my partner. Below are the symptoms of the problem.

1. During sexual excitement I am unable to get complete erection and sometimes even if erection is hard and complete it lasts for only 2 minutes or so. After that erection become weak. Most of the time erection is partial and not complete. Due to this weak erection very rarely I am able to have
complete penetration. Due to incomplete and soft erection most of the times it is difficult to wear condom. I do not get very hard and incomplete erections.

2. Whenever sexual excitement is there and erection starts to happen prostatic fluid (clear slippery fluid) starts coming out in the beginning itself when erection is still happening. Due this tip of the penis becomes moist in the beginning only.

3. Sometimes when erection is sustained till penetration just within few seconds of penetration I feel lot of sensitivity in my penis and immediately there is ejaculation. So never I am able to have longer time and satisfying penetration.

4. Due to all these problems before starting and during intercource I feel lot of anxiety, fear of failure, stress and low confidence which sometimes lowers my sexual desire and erection.

5. Though I have good sexual desire but due to all this problems and fear of not performing my desire gets effected and I tend to avoid sex and intercource.

6. Sometimes I also experience low libodo and lack of sexual desire.

7. Presently also I masturbate about once a week to fulfil my incomplete desires. I have been in habit of masturbating since last about last 20 years now. Though masturbating frequency is about once a week only.

I have tried few homeopathic remedies like Sulphur 200, Lycopodium 200, Angus castus 6c, Selenium 30, Selenium 200 but not got much relief. Only sulphur 200 improved erection and problem of prostatic fluid for few days but after stopping same problem came back. After that selenium 30 and 200 gave some improvement in stopping and prostatic fluid and erection and penetration timing but it was only little improvement. When medicine was stopped problem again came back. I tool selenium for many days but not much noticeable improvement is observed.

Healthwise I have mild borderline high cholesterol (about 190-200) problem, I also have hypothyroidism currently and it has been there since last about 12 years. Initially at age of 24 hyperthyroidism was diagnosed. After taking medications for hyperthyroidism it changes to hypothyroidism and till today I am taking medicines for hypothyroidism.
[Edited by vjhos on 2017-11-02 07:09:41]