adult add. please help me!

Here is my history and the symptoms I suffer.
Have never been diagnosed with ADD/ADHD or any other psychiatric/ psychological disorder.
My son shows symptoms of ODD/ADD/ADHD
Do NOT use drugs or alcohol.
Uncles use drugs and alcohol excessively.
I have alot of problems with memory.
My cousin and uncle have epilepsy. I do not have it.
Do not have any chronic health problems.
Never had a serious head injury (where I was knocked dizzy or unconscious)
I have a history of ADD symptoms in childhood, like distractibility, short attention span, impulsivity and restlessness.
I have a history of not living up to potential in school / work (report cards with comments such as 'not living up to potential, can do much better').
Never had a history of frequent behavior problems in school. Was extremely quiet and by myself.
My family has a strong history of learning problems, mood disorders or substance abuse problems.
Short attention span, unless very interested in something.
Easily distracted, tendency to drift away (although at times can be hyper focused).
Lacks attention to detail, due to distractibility.
Trouble listening carefully to directions.
Frequently misplaces things.
Skips around while reading, or goes to the end first, trouble staying on track.
Difficulty learning new games, because it is hard to stay on track during directions.
Easily distracted during sex, causing frequent breaks or turn-offs during lovemaking.
Poor listening skills.
Tendency to be easily bored (tunes out).
Restlessness, constant motion, legs moving, fidgetiness, especially my hands. They always moving.
Trouble sitting still, such as trouble sitting in one place for too long, sitting at a function. I become nauseous. Sometimes I frequenly use the toilet.
Sometimes I feel an internal sense of anxiety or nervousness.
Impulsive in spending.
Trouble going through established channels, trouble following proper procedure, an attitude of 'read the directions when all else fails.'
Impatient, low frustration tolerance.
A prisoner of the momen.t
Frequent, impulsive changes... can't make up my mind with career choice.
Poor organization and planning, trouble maintaining an organized study/living area.
Chronically late/ chronically in a hurry.
Often have pilesof stuff in my house.
Easily overwhelmed by tasks of daily living.
Poor financial management ( spending unnecessary money on thingss I just don't need).
Chronic procrastination / trouble getting started with anything.
Starting projects but not finishing them, poor follow through.
Enthusiastic beginnings but poor endings.
Spends excessive time doing things because of inefficiencies.
Inconsistent work performance.
Chronic sense of underachievement, feeling I should be much further along in my life than I am.
Chronic problems with self-esteem. I have no self control. This upsets me.
Sense of impending doom
Mood swings - one second I am fine the next I am crying my lungs out.
Negative at times.
Frequent feeling of demoralization or that things won't work out for me.
Trouble sustaining friendships and intimate relationship.
Trouble with intimacy. Since I became sexual active, I've had this problem.
Tendency to be immature in situations.
Failure to see others' needs or activities as important.
Lack of talking in a relationship - my husband complains to me about not talking.
Avoids group activities. I am always by myself. Have a hard time socializing. Feel like I don't fit.
Quick responses to slights that are real or imagined - I cry when I imagine certain things that are not real.
Tendency To Get Stuck (thoughts and behaviors).
Tendency to worry needlessly and endlessly.
Tendency toward addictions (buying expensive shoes,clothes and handbags).
Poor writing skills (hard to get information from brain to pen).
Coordination difficulties. The Harder I Try The Worse It Gets.
Performance becomes worse under pressure.
Test anxiety, or during tests my mind tends to go blank.
Tendency to turn off or become stuck when asked questions in social situations.
Falls asleep or becomes tired while reading.
Difficulties falling asleep, due to too many thoughts.
Difficulty coming awake (need coffee before feeling fully awake).
Low Energy. Periods of low energy, especially early in the morning and in the afternoon.
Frequently feeling tired - family thinks I am lazy.
Sensitive To Noise and Touch. I become frustrated.
Startles easily - anything scares me.
I desperately want to go back to school this year but I feel nervous and scared.
Please help me in anyway you can. I just want help.