Seeking constitutional remedy for social phobia

Hello Lisa,

Tell me, can you correlate any life event to the start of these problems ? Any stressful situation, that you went through ?

Are you very sensitive to music ?

I look forward to your replies.

Sameer

Lisa,
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Lisa,

I am keeping really busy.

I will come back to your case as soon as possible (should be in next 2-3 days).

Sameer

Lisa,

There is a lot of information you have posted above, and it will take me some time to analyze this.

I will do this soon(in this week itself).

Sameer

Do not take any homeopathic medicines in the meanwhile as it will muddle your case further.

I would like all experts to give special attention to this very well eloborated case,with so much in depth history....

I've summerized the case according to my own sequence of consideration as follows; The experts may also take help from the SEQUENCE of these points:

1):- Our parents divorced when we were still very young, I don't know exactly what age but I don't have any clear memories of them being together, except that I remember them fighting. My dad disappeared and my mom was hospitalized for depression and for attempting suicide.


2)- The grandparents ran them down to us, and they also would exaggerate our badness, and it was never for anything specific that we did but just in general. They kept threatening to send us to an orphanage

3:- On the first day of Kindergarten, we played a game where everybody stands in a circle and throws a ball around, and I was the only person nobody threw the ball to...


4):-I daydream a lot, and very elaborately and vividly. I enjoy it but it has occurred to me that I indulge too much in escapism instead of making the changes I need to make in my life.

5):-I seem to do better when I'm living either alone or with people who are nice to me, and worse when I'm living with people who yell at me and run me down.


6:- My aunt offered to take me off their hands. I remember my grandfather telling me that he couldn't give me to her because she was too good of a person to deserve someone as bad as me. But I DID end up moving in with her, when I was 11 years old.

7):-It was worse there. My uncle sexually abused me and also ran me down all the time and played weird psychological games, which he owned up to on several occasions as if to gloat about.

8):-After 3 years they decided that they didn't want me anymore either so they sent me to live with my mom, where her friend who kept hanging around kept molesting me


9:)-When we got married I meant it at the time. I thought we were making a promise to stick with each other through everything. I feel very strongly that my husband broke his promise and there's nothing I can do about that, you can't control other people, but I know that I would not be capable of that level of trust and idealism again. It just would be a very big deal, like I'm throwing away the whole idea of love and commitment, which I feel like he has already done and I know there's no future with him but it's like there's no future either way.

Lisa, it is now reaching a a point where the more you keep on adding to this thread, the more difficult it will get to sift out the relevant information. I think you have mentioned everything in great detail. I will go over this tonight, and ask you further questions if needed.

I hope you understand that although, detail is needed for homeopathic diagnosis, but at times too much of it can be confusing as well.

Lisa, sameervermani is right.STOP adding further details,,untill the experts asks you specifically.Let them work on the already available stuff..

Okay Lisa, I have gone through the case in detail and have to chose from 2 remedies, Lycopodium and Staphysagria

Can you please go to this link, and read the 2 remedies, especially the introductory, mind and 'general' section and tell me which remedy is closest to your personality type?

http://homepage.ntlworld.com/homeopathy_advice/Remedies/POLY....

The pane on the left on the link has links to both remedies.

How many doses were taken of each potency and at what gap between each ?

For Staphysagria I mean.

Just for future reference , there is no need, and infact it is incorrect prescribing to take so many consecutive doses of the same potency.

A total of just 2-3 doses on the same day are enough to kick start the curative response .

The waiting you did for several months was indeed the correct way, and you were also correct in raising the potency the next time you took it.

So, do you feel you have a lot of supressed anger and resentment inside of you now ?

Do you have a strong sense of honour ?

Do you find it difficult to ask for help ?

Lisa,Since I'm not an expert of homeopathy ,and can't comment on any priscription of homeopathy..
But I'll like to talk on the psychological side of your case,,
Your case is around HIM & HER(blaming others) but did you ever come to 'ME'
Confessions make even the heaviest psychological things very lighter(as in christianity)
Did u ever asked your self to what extent you could be responsble for a disturbing event in your life...
I hope you understand my point,,and don,t take in the negative sense